Mother
Kristof Bilsen
Limerick Films: 2019
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For decades, northern Thailand has been a haven for Western retirees, and it’s easy to understand why, with its tremendous value for money, warm climate and spectacular mountain scenery. Any well-travelled visitor to Thailand discovers shortly after arriving that Chiang Mai, the historic and cultural capital of northern Thailand, is one of Asia’s most livable cities, replete with historical temples, a relaxed pace of life and possibly the most diverse and delicious cuisine in the entire region. What’s more, any long-term resident in the city is consistently moved and surprised by the friendliness and warmth of northern Thai people, eager to show off the local culture. The photogenic beaches of southern Thailand may attract more tourists, but the north truly is the superior option for a long-term stay.

Among those taking advantage of northern Thai hospitality are the families of debilitated elderly Europeans and North Americans. With long-term hospice care out of the financial reach of many in the West, Chiang Mai is an attractive option to which to send a loved one for their final days, particularly if that loved one is struggling with irreversible cognitive decline and in need of full-time care and the warmth Thais are renowned for. Still, as a new documentary demonstrates, these decisions are never easy, and the legendary smiles of the Thai people often mask devastating economic realities and personal trauma.

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